So, let’s talk about something that’s been on my mind for a minute, the whole “Christian and secular music” thing. Look, I love Jesus. No doubt about it. I’m trying to be a better person, trying to walk in my faith and be true to my beliefs. But if I’m being totally honest, my playlist doesn’t always match that “Christian music-only” vibe some people expect.
I mean, I’m a huge fan of Afrobeats, I vibe to Rema, and yeah, sometimes I’ll throw on a little bit of SZA or even Tate McRae. It’s not just for the lyrics; it’s the beat, the rhythm, the energy, music has a way of speaking to my soul. But then, that little voice pops up, “Am I supposed to be listening to this?”
So, I get it. The struggle is real. On one hand, you’re enjoying the vibes, and on the other hand, you’re like, “Am I even allowed to listen to this as a Christian?”
What’s Really the Big Deal With Secular Music?
Before we dive deep, let’s clear this up: Secular music isn’t evil. It’s just music that isn’t made for worship or spiritual growth. That’s it. It’s love songs, party anthems, heartbreak ballads, and everything in between. Music that can make you dance, sing, or even reflect.
But if you’ve been around church circles, you’ve probably heard something like this:
“If it doesn’t glorify God, then it’s glorifying something else.”
“You can’t mix holy with unholy.”
Okay, okay, I get it. There’s a point to all of this. Music does have power. It shapes us, changes our mood, and even influences the way we think and act. But here’s the thing, it doesn’t have to be “all or nothing.”
My Struggle (Because Yes, I Listen to Secular Music)
I’m not here to say I don’t listen to secular music. I do. A lot. I’m a dancer, so music isn’t just background noise for me. It’s how I express myself, connect with my body, and feel something deep inside. It’s hard to imagine my life without it.
I’ve tried the whole “gospel in the morning, secular in the afternoon” routine, and honestly, it’s been tough to stick with. There are days when I just want to vibe to the latest Afrobeats hit or listen to a good rap album. And you know what? I don’t always feel guilty about it.
But there are days when I notice that certain songs start to mess with my energy. Maybe the lyrics get in my head, or the vibe shifts my mood in a way that isn’t helping my faith journey. It’s like… the music is fun, but it’s not necessarily building me up spiritually. And that’s when I start asking myself the tough questions.
The Real Question: What’s It Doing To Me?
I think that’s the real question we all need to ask ourselves when it comes to music, or anything, really. What is this doing to me?
You see, music doesn’t just sit in the background, it gets into your heart and mind. Philippians 4:8 tells us to focus on things that are true, pure, lovely, admirable, the kind of things that reflect the goodness of God. So when I’m vibing to a song full of negativity or anything that doesn’t align with my values, I have to pause and check in with myself.
“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” — Philippians 4:8 (NIV)
And it’s not about being perfect, it’s about knowing when to make a shift. It’s about being intentional. If I’m consuming content that doesn’t build me up spiritually, then I have to decide whether it’s worth it.
Finding Balance: It’s All About Discernment
I’m still figuring this out. I don’t have all the answers. But what I’ve learned is that balance is key. I’m not going to cut out secular music completely, because it’s a huge part of my life. But I am trying to be more intentional about when and how much I listen to it.
I’ve found that gospel music really does help me start my day with the right mindset. It sets the tone, helps me center myself, and reminds me of the bigger picture. It’s like filling my cup with good stuff before I step into the world, where I’ll hear all kinds of things that might pull me away from what’s important.
But I also need my secular jams, you know? They help me unwind, express myself, and keep me connected to the rhythm of life. And as long as I’m aware of what it’s doing to me and how it’s affecting my spirit, I think there’s room for both.
Final Thoughts: Grace Over Guilt
Here’s the thing, you don’t need to feel guilty about enjoying music. Secular music isn’t inherently bad. It’s about the intentionality behind what you’re consuming. Is it making you more like Christ, or is it pulling you away from Him? If it’s lifting you up, making you feel joy, or helping you express your true self, go for it.
But if it’s leading you down a path of negativity or messing with your energy in a bad way, then maybe it’s time to take a step back.
We all need to be real with ourselves about where we’re at, and how our choices align with who we’re becoming in Christ. And sometimes, it’s just a matter of finding that balance. You’re allowed to enjoy the world while still keeping your heart anchored in faith.
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For a deeper dive, check out this helpful resource: Can Christians listen to secular music? By 412Teens
Let’s Talk:
Do you struggle with this too? How do you balance your faith and your love for secular music? I’d love to hear how you navigate this. Drop your thoughts in the comments or DM me. No judgment, just real talk.
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